I just finished watching a video blog of someone who just got out of a relationship and now they have confessed and are some-what proud to be a serial hoe (so to speak). I am stunned! You get out of a relationship and decide - "well I cannot commit to one person so I will give myself to errorBody (everybody)I feel." How challenging.
I find it sad that we as SGL brothas feel that it is okay to encourage or agree with our "friends" that exihibit/ brag about this behaviour. So jaded and they don't even realize but they have moved on and are so happy to be free. HMMM! I have always been an advocate for monogamy and practice it, sans the time I slipped. Okay, we all deserve a one free "I messed up" pass. :) Do what you will with your body, but what does it proove? Do I want to hook up with someone who is so available/fast/easy and so used up sexually? NO! How empty are you that you need to get temporarily filled up by water downed gas? Sorry, I prefer premium. Costs more but much more rewarding and less damage down the road. I don't care how responsible you are condom wise. Actually, that is great but the behaviour is still dangerous/risky. I sigh in sadness that many of us Brothas have not read the post it notes left on our psyche's wall. POST IT NOTE One night stands never feel good once you sit to yourself.
I attribute a lot of this to Black PORN> Fantasy does not have to translate to reality. I may visualize 5 hot guys lined up waiting to service ME and ME only but in reality do I want to persue that? ye-NO!
We treat each other like disposable dildos & glory holes.
Some people are just to be admired and not had.
It's not chic anymore.
Are you a hurt person hurting people or a loving person loving people?