When you get WAY less from you are putting out- WHAT DO YOU DO?
I've been told... "YOU love too much, YOU give too much."
Is there such thing as too much LOVE?
Friday, October 30, 2009
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Happy Face Lover
To see you smile would be my initiative.
When you smile, that is my reward.
A shining radiating beam of inner joy.
Security seen in every flash of your pearly whites.
Cheek bones rising. Eyes dancing.
You my love, I want to see happy 'cause thru your happiness I find my purpose of being with you.
*Image from www.monaga.blogspot.com
Thursday, June 25, 2009
If looks could kill
If looks could kill
I"m gonna try the good looking guys now.
Let me explain. I know that beauty is skin deep and the inner beauty is what we "should" be focused on. I have noticed that I am like the charity case lover when it comes to looks. I do not date random brothas much. I usually meet a guy and over time become exclusive (boyfriends if you will). The thing is most of them have not been the ultimate match for me in the looks department. Not that I am saying I am King Beauty but you know when lovers looks match? The problem is that these mediocre guy's personalities end up matching their looks. I have allowed some of these barely passables to almost destroy my esteem, compete with me and sponge my sweet naturedness. Yes, I know the "fine" one's can have the same attitude but for ME, I am gonna try something New and be extremely selective based on looks with the belief that their outer beauty WILL match their inner beauty. I know it's possible- well I am here aren't I. :)
Not throwing my pearls before swines anymore.
Most Brotha relationships are usually 1/2 for me it used to be 0/2.
I am going for (deserve) 2/2 how 'bout you?
I"m gonna try the good looking guys now.
Let me explain. I know that beauty is skin deep and the inner beauty is what we "should" be focused on. I have noticed that I am like the charity case lover when it comes to looks. I do not date random brothas much. I usually meet a guy and over time become exclusive (boyfriends if you will). The thing is most of them have not been the ultimate match for me in the looks department. Not that I am saying I am King Beauty but you know when lovers looks match? The problem is that these mediocre guy's personalities end up matching their looks. I have allowed some of these barely passables to almost destroy my esteem, compete with me and sponge my sweet naturedness. Yes, I know the "fine" one's can have the same attitude but for ME, I am gonna try something New and be extremely selective based on looks with the belief that their outer beauty WILL match their inner beauty. I know it's possible- well I am here aren't I. :)
Not throwing my pearls before swines anymore.
Most Brotha relationships are usually 1/2 for me it used to be 0/2.
I am going for (deserve) 2/2 how 'bout you?
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Their God Hates gays.
I have met some spiritually messed up dudes.
I mean it is nice to date a guy who loves the Lord but then it gets to the point of religious insanity. Out of nowhere they become holier than thou and then run top speed to church(religion) not God. God is everywhere. It's such self hate.
They do not understand that love is what we are here to do. They do what CUMS natural to them then feel guity and beleive church will quick fix and sexually cleanse them and in no time they are back to their old dicks (I mean tricks again).
They will never find resolution with their God because they fail to realize that being gay is part of their sexual DNA. Sex is not a relationship but you can have sex in a relationship. What they also fail to realize is that they are walking contradictions because "church" and "scriptures" is there to bring you to the truth and truth is what exists not what is conjured up. Either you a attracted to men or you aren't. YES it is that simple. I think that is a big mockery to GOD whom created you. I did not wake up and say "hey I'm gonna go after dick to piss of God and the Church." In my eyes it is the fact that they do not know how to love themselves and all God wants is for you to acknowledge that you were created as you are and stop lying and faking your true nature.Stop dragging these deserving women of heterosexuality into your web of sexual frustration and denial.
Next Brotha that I allow into my world is gonna have to love the SGL trinity which is God, himself and me.
What type of guy do you attract?
I mean it is nice to date a guy who loves the Lord but then it gets to the point of religious insanity. Out of nowhere they become holier than thou and then run top speed to church(religion) not God. God is everywhere. It's such self hate.
They do not understand that love is what we are here to do. They do what CUMS natural to them then feel guity and beleive church will quick fix and sexually cleanse them and in no time they are back to their old dicks (I mean tricks again).
They will never find resolution with their God because they fail to realize that being gay is part of their sexual DNA. Sex is not a relationship but you can have sex in a relationship. What they also fail to realize is that they are walking contradictions because "church" and "scriptures" is there to bring you to the truth and truth is what exists not what is conjured up. Either you a attracted to men or you aren't. YES it is that simple. I think that is a big mockery to GOD whom created you. I did not wake up and say "hey I'm gonna go after dick to piss of God and the Church." In my eyes it is the fact that they do not know how to love themselves and all God wants is for you to acknowledge that you were created as you are and stop lying and faking your true nature.Stop dragging these deserving women of heterosexuality into your web of sexual frustration and denial.
Next Brotha that I allow into my world is gonna have to love the SGL trinity which is God, himself and me.
What type of guy do you attract?
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
Not you, you or YOU!
SGL Brothas, we are a piece of work.
I have to admit that I have, at times been exactly like what I am about to discuss.
Now most of us have indulged in the online search for (ahem) love, relationships and friendships at least. Since when did there come physical requirements to be just friends with someone? I have read the profiles, gawked at the images. Some profiles send mixed messages. E.G; Not Out (yet they have a pic posted), OUT (adventurous yet their photo is set to private or no photo at all). WHAT??? LOL.
How true are we to our ideals of what we are looking for? It is so challenging to connect with dudes online. Keep in mind I still believe the best way is still offline social interactions. I mean we have all the time in the world right to find that "Right" guy? Sometimes we allow Mr. Right to walk right on by.Don't get me wrong, you must have some standards but I think sometimes we set the bar WAY high. You can be so choosy and picky until you run out of options or pick Mister Pretense as a mate. There comes a time in life when character transcends image right? Brothas have so many qualities that they are looking for in a partner yet do they even look within themselves to see if they exemplify those sames qualities?
Well I know from now on when I see or meet someone that reflects some of my ideals, I will be open to exploring an acquaintance/ relationship as long as they look like a Top Model- well stacked, educated, Lot's of Money, cooks, cleans, faithful, always happy ready for sex when I am etc :)Just kidding.
I have to admit that I have, at times been exactly like what I am about to discuss.
Now most of us have indulged in the online search for (ahem) love, relationships and friendships at least. Since when did there come physical requirements to be just friends with someone? I have read the profiles, gawked at the images. Some profiles send mixed messages. E.G; Not Out (yet they have a pic posted), OUT (adventurous yet their photo is set to private or no photo at all). WHAT??? LOL.
How true are we to our ideals of what we are looking for? It is so challenging to connect with dudes online. Keep in mind I still believe the best way is still offline social interactions. I mean we have all the time in the world right to find that "Right" guy? Sometimes we allow Mr. Right to walk right on by.Don't get me wrong, you must have some standards but I think sometimes we set the bar WAY high. You can be so choosy and picky until you run out of options or pick Mister Pretense as a mate. There comes a time in life when character transcends image right? Brothas have so many qualities that they are looking for in a partner yet do they even look within themselves to see if they exemplify those sames qualities?
Well I know from now on when I see or meet someone that reflects some of my ideals, I will be open to exploring an acquaintance/ relationship as long as they look like a Top Model- well stacked, educated, Lot's of Money, cooks, cleans, faithful, always happy ready for sex when I am etc :)Just kidding.
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Own worst enemy
Letting society DICKtate whom and how you love. Even behind closed doors, a "safe place" for two SGL brothas to explore each other, there still lies this distrust or sense of uncomfort. THEN WHY ARE YOU HERE if you ae not wiling to give your all?
SIGH!
SIGH!
Monday, February 9, 2009
roMANce
Could it be that romance within brotha2brotha relationships exsits?
It must, 'cause I am here, ready and able to give my man my time, my ears, my emotions, my truth, my intentions, my support and express this all in a kiss, a look, a tone in my voice- THA"s roMANce to me.
To some, romance is that sweet talk before we CUM together. To SUM romance is submission, usually on your part, just there to satisfy selfish cravings. Ha roMANce.
RoMANce is not a plea for sex but a plea for love. RoMANce is not a "TOUCHing" but a FEELing, there is a difference. Stop confusing being sexUal with being AFFECTionate, they are not the same. RoMANce is chivalry and civility.
I trust that this idea of roMANce is not completely lost with us Bothas.
It must, 'cause I am here, ready and able to give my man my time, my ears, my emotions, my truth, my intentions, my support and express this all in a kiss, a look, a tone in my voice- THA"s roMANce to me.
To some, romance is that sweet talk before we CUM together. To SUM romance is submission, usually on your part, just there to satisfy selfish cravings. Ha roMANce.
RoMANce is not a plea for sex but a plea for love. RoMANce is not a "TOUCHing" but a FEELing, there is a difference. Stop confusing being sexUal with being AFFECTionate, they are not the same. RoMANce is chivalry and civility.
I trust that this idea of roMANce is not completely lost with us Bothas.
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