My online journal dedicated to black/ latino male affection and rants.
I used to wonder if there was such a thing as too much love, but I've realized that becomes an issue when the person receiving the love feels guilty because they know that you aren't the ONE...
NO THERE ISN'T SUCH A THING AS LOVING TOO MUCH...
I used to hear that alot also. Some people are just more open and free with their love. Why should we feel like we have to ration it out...wait and see what our partner does or how he responds. If we love someone we should be free to express it how we like.All people do not do love the same. We must acknowledge that. It would be great to find someone who is as free with their love as you are, but if you don't it doesn't mean he doesn't love you or feels that it's time to move on.
"Dance like nobody's watching. Love like you've never been hurt. Sing like nobody's listening. Live like it's heaven on earth."Therefore, you cannot exceed giving love. And don't be afraid to listen and follow YOUR innate instinct.
Those are phrases used by people who don't know when to step back and take an objective look at their situaton and stop justifying stupid behavior. If a person loves and cares about you as much as you do them, they'll show it. And once you can discern what's what, then you have to make a decision regarding y'alls future.But if you're going to love, then do it 100 or don't do it at all.
I'm not sure if there's such a thing as too much love in and of itself. However, I do believe that there's such a thing as giving more than your partner deserves. Some fools are all about the TAKE, TAKE, TAKE ... and therein exists the perfect alignment of starts and planets for the situation you describe. Givers should partner with givers ... that they may learn how to receive. There's nothing worse that having a brutha who is uncomfortable with all the giving you do ... just fucking take it and stop trying to block my blessing.Takers - they need each other to learn what it feels like to be so incredibly emotionally drained by the one way street they live on.That's my two cents worth, albeit late as hell.
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