Thursday, June 25, 2009

If looks could kill

If looks could kill
I"m gonna try the good looking guys now.
Let me explain. I know that beauty is skin deep and the inner beauty is what we "should" be focused on. I have noticed that I am like the charity case lover when it comes to looks. I do not date random brothas much. I usually meet a guy and over time become exclusive (boyfriends if you will). The thing is most of them have not been the ultimate match for me in the looks department. Not that I am saying I am King Beauty but you know when lovers looks match? The problem is that these mediocre guy's personalities end up matching their looks. I have allowed some of these barely passables to almost destroy my esteem, compete with me and sponge my sweet naturedness. Yes, I know the "fine" one's can have the same attitude but for ME, I am gonna try something New and be extremely selective based on looks with the belief that their outer beauty WILL match their inner beauty. I know it's possible- well I am here aren't I. :)

Not throwing my pearls before swines anymore.

Most Brotha relationships are usually 1/2 for me it used to be 0/2.

I am going for (deserve) 2/2 how 'bout you?

4 comments:

J. Fox said...

I usually like good looking men. I am good looking so why can't I like a man who is attractive? I am pretty visual so something about you must appeal to my senses lol

Call me selfish, vain, or conceited. I know what I like.

UrSoVain said...

Fine is fine!!!! Even if the personality doesn't match.. at least he's fine. Superficiality is not. a. crime.

thetruth said...

CHILE I CAN SO FEEL YOU ON THIS. WHAT I CAN GET IS WHY EVERY TIME A SCRUB IN THE LOOKS DEPARTMENTS PULLS A GOOD LOOKING GUY OR GIRL AND WANT TO GET CUTE AND TRY TO GET THE UPPER HAND AND TREAT THEM ANY KIND OF WAY!

OH NO YOU WONT UGLY! YOU ARE NOT THAT DAMNED CLEVER!

Santiago said...

I always end up with complete sex addicts. Although I find them attractive, it's going nowhere and turns out to be painful. I'm looking for exchanges, not some random fucking machine.

Most of them just "don't know" or "don't care", like they're not into movies, books, music nor anything at all: very few seem to know what they enjoy (it can be random stuff like a sunny day, specific places or particular WHATEVER). If I ask them to think about the last time they had happy days and why, the only answer I ever had is "don't know, hey! what if you get down you knees and..." C'mon! They can't even communicate (I mean they talk and write a lot, but the message still remains unclear -if any beside the underlying "I'm bored"-).

Like everyone around, I have preferences concerning the appearance. But I'm focusing a lot more on behavior, personal background and likes; I enjoy being with someone and make him/her feel good (certainly because I wish I'm the reason of their happiness -- pretty much what you wrote on next post: "I want to see happy 'cause thru your happiness I find my purpose of being with you").

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